Prayers for reconciliation of spouses, relatives, friends after a strong quarrel
Loving and dear people turn into enemies because of quarrels, scandals, their own pride, unwillingness to compromise, differences of opinion. Living together destroys the once romantic relationship of a boy and a girl, the constant intervention of outsiders in the affairs of a family destroys marriage. The prayer for reconciliation of the hostile creates miracles: peace comes, love becomes stronger, the one who is guilty, realizes his mistakes.
They read them in quarrels with their parents, children (son and daughter), other relatives, and disagreements of spouses.
If quarrels in the family occur regularly, begin to give up and visit the thought of separation. If a husband quarrels with his wife and no one wants to take the first step towards reconciliation, a prayer for the preservation of the family will pacify pride and destroy enmity.
They can be read for spouses by the mother or father of one of them. In case of hostility of relatives, for example, father and son, or son-in-law with the mother-in-law, prayers to the saints will also help, and the long-awaited peace will finally reign.
If relationships are important, you need to try to save them, strengthen them. When your own efforts no longer bring results, this can be done with the help of a prayer to the Lord and His saints.
Prayer for reconciliation of warring:
- bring peace to the family;
- establish relationships with relatives;
- strengthen the feelings of lovers;
- keep the family;
- strengthen love;
- will bring peace.
Every word of prayer is permeated with spiritual power and love. If you say them with faith and a sincere desire to reconcile, you will surely come a quick improvement in relationships.
It is not necessary to know the prayers by heart, you can use the prayer book.
The Lord is a loving Father who desires good for all. Every good intention He has mercy and reward.
Prayers to the Lord God in moments of hostility will calm the soul, help restrain and not respond to evil, will contribute to reconciliation.
“The master of humanity, the King of the ages and the Giver of the Good, who destroyed the enmity of the mediastinum and the world who gave the human race, also grant the world your servant now, rooted in your fear and for each other, affirm love: extinguish all feuds, remove all divorce and temptation. Yakou Thou art our world, and to thee we give the glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever and ever and ever.
“Lord, God, Almighty, look upon us, sinful and unworthy children of Yours, who have sinned before You, have angered Your goodness, brought Your righteous indignation upon us, fallen into the depths of sin. You see, O Lord, our weakness and spiritual sorrow, the corruption of our hearts and minds, the impoverishment of faith, the retreat from Thy commandments, the multiplication of family unhappiness, separation and contention of the church, You see our sorrows and sorrows, from disease, smoothness, drowning, burning and internecine warfare taking place.
But, the Most Gracious and Human-Loving Lord, enlighten, instruct and have mercy on us, the unworthy. Correct our sinful life, quench strife and disorder, collect those who are squandered, unite the dispersed, give peace to our country and prosperity, save you from serious troubles and misfortunes. All-holy Vladyka, enlighten our minds with the light of the teachings of the Gospel, warm our hearts with the warmth of your grace and direct me to make your commandments, may your all-holy and glorious name be glorified in us Father and Son and Holy Spirit, now and forever and ever.
With the complex nature of a man, a woman helps the image of the Mother of God «Softener of Evil Hearts», or «The seven-arrow». He needs to be at home and pray with him daily for the multiplication of love.
With God’s help, after some time, changes will be visible for the better.
A strong short prayer to the Virgin Mary: “Most Holy Theotokos, save us! «Pronounced at the time of tension, with anger and irritation.
Prayer of the Blessed Virgin Mary:
“Oh, the long-suffering Mother of God, Higher than all the daughters of the earth, according to her purity and many sufferings, by thee upon the lands which we have borne, accept our sorely painful sighs and save us under your mercy. There is no other refuge and warmth of blessedness to you, but, boldly, you have the courage to be born of you, help and save us with your prayers, let us reach the kingdom of heaven, forever and ever.
After a strong quarrel, prayers to the Virgin Mary will help calm down. It will give the praying man the strength to patiently carry his cross.
Matushka Matrona of Moscow willingly and soon helps to reconcile after a quarrel. In case of tense relations between mother and daughter or son, the complete prayer to Matron is recited, adding an akathist to the saint if possible.
The prayer of St. Matrona:
“About the blessed mother of Matrono, the forthcoming soul in heaven before the Throne of God, rested with his body on earth, and given forth from above the grace of various miracles exuding. Regard now with your gracious eye on us, sinners, in sorrow, sickness and sinful temptations, your dependent days, comfort us, desperate, heal the afflictions of our lyutya, God permissive of us through our sins, save us from many troubles and circumstances, pray to our Lord Jesus Christ forgive us all our sins, iniquities and fall, we are from our youth even to the present day and hour of sin, and with your prayers we receive grace and great mercy, we will glorify in the Trinity of One God, the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit, now and ever and ever and ever.
Short prayers to the old woman are also effective. They are pronounced at the time of a quarrel or enmity, when a person is angry:
- 1. “Holy righteous old woman Matrono, pray to God for us! «
- 2. “Holy Righteous Mother Matrona! You are a helper to all people, help me in my misfortune (…). Do not leave me with your help and intercession, pray to the Lord for God’s servant (name). In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen».
- 3. “Blessed old woman Matron, our intercessor and the petitioner before the Lord! You look with your eyes spiritual and into the past and the future, everything is open to you. Introduce the servant of God (name), give advice, show the way to the solution of the problem (…) Thank you for helping your saint. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen».
Praying to St. Irina, we must remember that this girl devoted her life to the Lord God and the creation of good. Therefore, it is necessary to ask for favors from her, forgiving offenders, showing humility.
Great martyr Irina is asked for family well-being, health, and reconciliation of those who are in a quarrel. Petitions to the saint relieve various misfortunes.
“Oh, the long-suffering and most glorious Irino, the bride of Christ of all, a marvelous servant of God! You stand at the Throne of the Most Holy Trinity and enjoy unspeakable bliss. Look upon the mercifully on us, who offer this laudatory singing, ask us for mercy, forgiveness of sins from the Most Good Lord, vemes of bo, truly, like all, just admire, you can ask of Him.
So much the same humbly we fall down to you and ask: pacify the Lord of heaven and earth, give us your spirit of jealousy to keep the saints of His commandments, just like we can conduct an earthly career in a virtuous life, to inherit the paradise villages and inherit them with you and all the saints to worship us. Son and Holy Spirit forever and ever. Amen».
Prelate Nikolay willingly intercedes for the offended side. His mercy to the unfortunate, in a cramped, hopeless situation knows no bounds.
Saint Nicholas the Wonderworker will also help with serious quarrels with loved ones and relatives.
“O our kind shepherd and God-wise mentor, the prelate of Christ Nicholas! Hearing us sinners, praying to you and calling for your speedy intercession; See us weak, from everywhere caught, from all the good of the destitute, and with the mind of the faint-heartedness of the darkened; Try to please God, do not leave us in sinful captivity to be, let us not be our enemy in joy and not die in our evil deeds.
Pray for us unworthy of our Co-deverend and the Vladyka, to him you are with unprepared faces: mercy to us will create our God in this present life and in the future Wetz, may he not repay us in our deeds and uncleanness of our hearts, but in his goodness he will repay us .
We hope for your petition with confidence, we praise with your intercession, we call upon your intercession for help, and we ask for your most holy image, help: save us, please Christ, from the evils that are upon us, and tame the waves of passions and misfortunes that rise against us, but for the sake of your holy prayers do not embrace us to attack and do not wallow in the depths of sin and in the mud of our passions. Pray to the Saint Nicholas of Christ, Christ our God, give us a peaceful living and abandonment of sins, as well as salvation and great mercy to our souls, now and forever and ever and ever.
“O great intercessor, hierarch of God, Nicholas blessed, like the sunflower, shone miracles, calling upon the same quickest hearer to appear, and precede and save you, and deliver you from the misfortunes of all kinds, from God to these wonders and gifts to God!
Hearing me unworthy, in faith, the person calling and prayerful brings singing to you; I offer you more of the petitioner to plead for Christ.
O notorious in miracles, high priest! Yako boldness, soon the Lord of Presence, and Reverend his Rule of prayer to Him, make a sin of me, and from Him bless the bounty of goodness, and receive me in your intercession, and from the onslaught of enemies visible and invisible freeing, ruining all those slander and evil tricks, and reflecting on me in all my life; By forgiving me with the sin of sin, and saved me to Christ, present the Kingdom of Heaven to improve for so much humanity, to Him all the glory, honor and worship befits, with His beginningless Father, and with the Most Holy and Good and Life-Creating Spirit, now and for ever and ever centuries. Amen».
Saints Peter and Fevronia are the patrons of the Orthodox marriage. They pray to them for strengthening and restoring relations, preserving their family, mutual love, and quarrels between spouses.
Prayer to Peter and Fevronia:
“On the greatness of the saint of God and the prediction of the miracle-workers, of the blessing of Prince Petra and Princess Fevron, of the city of Murom, intercessor and guardian, and prayers of the Lord for all of us zealous in the Lord! We resort to you and we pray with strong hope: offer your holy prayer to the Lord God for sinners, and ask His goodness for all that is demanding for our souls and our television: faith for the right, hope for good, love unfeigned, piety is unshakable, in good deeds prosperity, peace of peace, earth’s fruitfulness, good complacency, good health and soul salvation. Outcome at the Tsar of Heavenly Church, the Saints and the whole power of Russia, peace, quietness and well-being, and all of us have a good life and a good Christian demise.
Protect your fatherland and all the cities of Russia from all evil; and all the Orthodox people, those who come to you, and with your holy relic, will worship, grace you with the grace-giving action of your prayers, and fulfill all your prayers for the good. Hey, wonderworkers of the Holy!
Do not despise our prayers, with affection to you today ascended, but awaken us a messenger to the Lord, and help us with your eternal salvation improve and the Heavenly Kingdom inherit: let us praise the ineffable humanity of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, in the Trinity of God worshiping God. forever and ever. Amen».
If spouses often quarrel and are not married, it is advisable to get married in a church. This mystery calls for God’s blessing on relationships and procreation.
The Most High said to his faithful through the Quran: “He rallied their hearts. If you had spent all that is on the earth, you could not unite their hearts, but Allah united them.
Verily, He is the Mighty, the Wise ”(8: 63).
When you need to reconcile someone, a Muslim must ask Allah for this. If hatred settled in the hearts, a sincere appeal to Allah will produce results, hearts will soften and reconciliation will come.
Two duas from the Koran will help to overcome hostility and hatred in the soul towards each other:
1. “Allahumma allif bayna kulyubina, va aslikh zata bajnina, va hdina subula s-salami, va najdzhina mina z-zulumat ilya n-nur”. “O Allah, unite our hearts and make our relationship good. Lead us in the ways of the world and lead us from darkness to the light. ”
2. «Rabbanajal afidatan Minan naashi tahvi elayna.» “Our Lord! Fill the hearts of some people with love for us. ”
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