How to understand that this is your man, destiny destined for a relationship?
To reduce the risk of a wrong choice of a life partner, it is important to be able to understand in time that this is your person, with whom you can build a strong union and harmonious relations, or attribute your partner to the category of people who simply gave experience and get ready for a break. The recommendations of psychologists, calculations of numerology and astrology, the ability to recognize karmic connections in esoterics, as well as simple divinations and magic rituals will help in this.
There is a myth that God divided the soul in two, so that the two halves wandered around the world in search of each other. Is he true, no one will ever know.
But it is important to understand that a person is born as a whole person. You should not hope that after meeting the second half a harmonious and happy life will begin without difficulties and troubles.
If a person’s life consists solely in the search for a stronger partner who will solve all problems, then he will not be able to become happy until he becomes independent and is not able to take care of himself.
Esoterics claim that all the trials that a man or a woman goes through on his way to his happiness are an essential necessity.
To find happiness in love relationships and meet the ideal partner, you need to constantly work on yourself. The fateful meeting can lead to dramatic changes, and an inexperienced person will simply not be ready for this.
As a result, he will choose another partner who will seem more profitable to him, or will prefer loneliness.
Almost any person can become an ideal second half, and the development of relations directly depends on the desire of the couple. If partners refuse to take responsibility and overcome obstacles, then fate has nothing to do with it.
And if a person prefers to consider himself unhappy, then this is only his choice.
Fate sends people and new meetings so that the person does not stand still and develop, and more often than not the relationship does not last long, as they are an intermediate link to the full formation of the personality. A person will be able to meet the ideal partner only when he is ready for this, and loneliness will stop scaring him.
People can make the second half of any partner who fits this role. At the same time, they are ready to endure all the shortcomings of the partners, considering that such a test has been sent to them, and happiness awaits them ahead.
Psychologists are advised to abandon such victims, because everyone builds their own destiny.
Understand that the number of people destined to fate, which will build a strong union, you can with a simple test. If the statements listed below correspond to the relationship with the partner, then 1 point is awarded, if not — 0.
- 1. Partners have no doubts about the sincerity of the bright feelings of the second half. The chosen one constantly proves love not by word, but by deed.
- 2. The partner supports his life partner and does not give doubt to his own abilities, desires, beauty and ideas. He helps to make the right choice, worrying about the security of both parties.
- 3. A person inspires and motivates by his example, without fear of failures and problems that stand in the way of happiness. He knows that the couple deserves all the best, and goes to this.
- 4. The partner does not stand still, but continues to develop. If earlier he dreamed of buying a car, now he is targeting an apartment or a leading place in a large company. It’s not scary to dream with him, because both partners are striving for development.
- 5. He not only won, but retained confidence. He wants his second half to feel comfortable and confident, so the relationship is devoid of any lies.
- 6. He is attentive to the wishes of the partner and does not forget to keep promises. He does more than he says, because the well-being of his family is dear to him.
- 7. A partner is never cruel to a loved one. He will not insult and cause moral or physical pain.
- 8. Next to him I want to be myself and not wear any masks. With such a person you can not be ashamed of the lack of appearance, he will always be there.
The sum of all indicators will tell you how productive the relationship will be in the future. Options for decoding the result depending on the number of points:
- eight — happy union;
- 6-7 — medium compatibility of partners;
- less than 6 — relationship will not bring happiness.
It is difficult to find couples in which conflict situations and quarrels do not arise, but loving people peacefully solve the problems that have arisen. They will never get personal and insult each other. By their presence alone they inspire the chosen one to develop, and next to them I want to reach unprecedented heights.
In a loving relationship there is no place for lies and betrayal, since partners can trust each other completely.
It’s not worth wasting your time if the ideal satellite turned out to be different from what it was originally presented. Trying to change it, you can skip the meeting with a person who is focused on a strong relationship.
A holistic and harmoniously developed person is not in a hurry to get married. She can develop without a loving partner and children.
If she meets a person who has a completely different world view and who is not set up for a long and productive relationship, she will simply break off all ties with him.
However, some people are depressed by loneliness, and they definitely need a partner nearby. Each new meeting they perceive as fateful and do everything to keep the beloved.
Such behavior is characteristic of people with an immature psyche and low self-esteem. They are willing to endure alongside alcoholic patients, tyrants and traitors, trying to correct them.
Most often, such relationships are dependent, so it is difficult to break them.
Many of the women, consciously choosing men leading an asocial lifestyle, believe in the fatefulness of such meetings. In fact, they themselves choose and build their future.
The best option in this case would be to break off the relationship and find a more worthy partner. But to give up dependent relationships is quite difficult.
Women prefer to endure and suffer until they fully realize the meaninglessness of this.
Some people choose "not those" partners solely for mercantile purposes. Marriages of convenience existed at all times, and often the partners in them are happier than those who chose a satellite, succumbing to a momentary passion.
But if one spouse tolerates the presence of the other just for the sake of comfort, then such a relationship will not last long.
Quite a few men and women married "not with those" people influenced by society, which indicates the importance of family and children. The partners were in the hope that over time they would be able to love each other and feelings would flare up between them, but this did not happen, because initially they were too different.
Psychologists recommend sticking to simple rules that will help you find your love and find happiness:
- one. To decide on the choice of your ideal. It is recommended to present your destiny and a person who can give happiness.
- 2 Examine past mistakes. Often the scenarios of sad novels are repeated, but in order to avoid this, it is necessary to analyze their mistakes and try not to repeat them.
- 3 Become more patient. When a fateful meeting happens, no one knows — it can happen in a few days or years. During this time you should not become self-contained — it is necessary to fill life with new emotions, acquaintances and communication.
- four. Do self-development. Do not stay where you are and just dream of a mysterious second half that will change life for the better. We must begin to act and achieve our goals.
- five. Introduce the future family. It is necessary to think about what difficulties partners in family relations will expect and how to solve them. It is necessary to think in advance where the family can live, what the spouses will do and whether there will be financial problems.
- 6 Give up doubt. Do not blame the fate, if the long-awaited meeting did not happen, and all relationships end sadly. Loneliness should be treated as a temporary phenomenon, which is given for self-development and error correction.
To let love into your life, you need to forget about past sad relationships and learn to respect yourself. Every person deserves to be loved and sooner or later he will meet his happiness.
Where the meeting will take place, no one will be able to predict, but it is recommended to refuse dating in entertainment establishments. You can start chatting in the gym, library, shopping center, museum, theater or on the Internet.
According to the Holy Scriptures, a person does not independently choose his soul mate, but God sends her. The clergy give the following recommendations:
- 1. Be sure to remember about God and God’s Will while searching for your companion.
- 2. Choosing a spouse must be thoughtful, to make it easier to be faithful to each other.
- 3. You can not commit adultery even in dreams, you should live, adhering to the principles of respect and understanding.
- 4. It is recommended to pray to the Almighty to help him make the right decision.
- 5. You should not choose a satellite, focusing on its financial position and external data, — a common worldview plays a crucial role.
- 6. It is important to know how a partner relates to religion. Family life should be built according to the laws of Christianity.
Orthodoxy also warns that one should not commit rash acts and enter into relations with people who have a negative impact on a person.
According to many esoteric teachings and Eastern religions, meetings and acquaintances with significant people who remain in the memory of a person for a long time are of a karmic nature. Under the term "karma" imply a universal cause-and-effect law that determines the fate of a person in subsequent incarnations, depending on his righteous and sinful actions.
Karmic meetings occur between people who in the previous incarnation had a strong emotional connection or between which there were unresolved problems and debts. So fate gives people the opportunity to correct the situation and completely break up or build harmonious relationships.
The main signs of karmic bonds are:
- the rapid development of relationships;
- a huge difference in tastes and preferences;
- different social situation;
- lightning marriage.
The relationships of karmically connected people are swift. Despite different interests and preferences, people, by the will of fate, find themselves in the right place at the right time, after which the novel begins to develop rapidly.
Often they feel that they were previously familiar, they are overwhelmed with emotions.
There is an attraction between partners at the sexual or emotional level or there is a psychological similarity. All together manifests itself extremely rarely.
Such relationships are characterized by bright emotions — to remain indifferent when communicating with someone you previously knew, a person cannot, this is determined at the subconscious level.
Emotions arise between people, which were observed in the previous incarnation. Unreasonable offense, anger, feeling of fear, jealousy, a guilt complex or a real dependence on a person can appear.
It is karmic meetings that people often confuse with love at first sight.
Not necessarily a man sent by fate, will give happiness and joy. Most often, the opposite happens — life sends a problematic soul mate with which it is necessary to part on the energy level.
Karmic relationships develop in two scenarios:
- one. Creating In the past incarnation, the partners loved each other, did not betray, and lived according to the laws of the universe. In real life, from the very beginning, they develop favorable relations that bring only happiness and joy.
- 2 Destructive. There were difficult relations between partners, but they could not break them. Most often this happens with a tyrant husband, an alcoholic or a drug addict. Life gives them a chance to either try again to build strong relationships, or to completely break ties.
If you continue to suffer and suffer, in the next incarnation, such partners are destined to meet again, and the script of tragic love will repeat.
Astrology and numerology do not deny the fact of karmic connections.
With the help of simple calculations by date of birth, you can find out what the relationship will be and whether to continue them. Dates of the birth of partners must be written out in a line and put all the numbers.
For example, for a woman born on 22. 11. 1991 and a man who was born 20.
12. 1990, the calculations are as follows: 2 + 2 + 1 + 1 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 1 + 2 + 1 + 2 + 1 + 9 + 9 = 50.
It is necessary to subtract the karmic number 22 from the final figure. If the sum turned out to be more than 22, then the subtraction is performed again. In the given example, the following calculations are required: 50-22 = 28, 28-22 = 6. The magic number for a pair is 6.
You can find out the value of the result obtained using the table:
Unfavorable relations develop, for which rivalry and quarrels are peculiar
There will be an ideal union in which peace, harmony and mutual understanding between partners reigns.
The couple has every chance of marriage. These relationships will bring financial well-being and stability, but they cannot be influenced by outside influence.
The leading role in this pair is assigned to a man. There will be a lot of passion in relationships, and jealousy can destroy it.
One of the partners will be the mentor of the other, who will be able to indicate the right direction in life or will simply give invaluable experience.
Favorable relationships and a strong marriage are possible, in which love, harmony and understanding will reign.
The figure indicates a dynamic relationship, which is characterized by frequent changes, travel. There is a high probability of betrayal and rupture.
This is a karmic alliance in which the partners were to blame for each other. They will have to work out the mistakes and try to achieve harmony, not trying to change the chosen one
Adverse relationships develop in which partners feel lonely.
This is a happy alliance that has all the chances of development.
There are complex relationships in which everyone will try to dominate, which will cause frequent scandals
For a relationship to develop, you will have to exert maximum efforts and sacrifice something important.
This is an unsuccessful alliance that will fall apart sooner or later. Physical or moral abuse may be present.
The figure indicates a stable relationship in which the partners have common interests and understand each other perfectly
Dangerous relationships are built on manipulation and strong sexual dependence.
These are unstable relations in which partners do not match each other at the energy level.
This is the perfect couple in which a man and a woman complement each other in all areas.
Relationships are built on delusions. There is a high probability of adultery and rash acts.
This is a strong harmonious relationship in which the birth of several children is possible.
Despite the difficult beginning of a relationship, there are strong feelings in a couple that will help build a harmonious union.
High energy compatibility leads to the development of relations in which partners will take care of each other
These are unpredictable relationships whose outcome is impossible to predict.
If between lovers the age difference is 5, 10, 15 and 20 years, then this is a sign of karmic relations. It is rather difficult to break such unions, and they are not always favorable.
When the difference is 5 and 10 years, partners will need to work out mutual debts. One spouse becomes a guide, and the other has to accept the role of the slave.
With a difference of 15 years, there is a strong karmic attraction. It will be difficult for these people to break up, even if they want to do it.
In such a relationship, one of the partners may lead the other out of the way, increasing karmic debts, or contribute to the right choice.
Detailed astrological compatibility can be learned with the help of the natal card of lovers, which is compiled individually. Astrologers take into account the compatibility of elements, analyze the interaction of the planets and the position of the karmic points. It is very difficult to calculate astrological compatibility on your own, and this is not always the case.
For such calculations will require perfect knowledge of astrology and many years of experience.
Fate often sends signs that help you recognize favorable relationships and distinguish them from those that will cause only pain and suffering.
The meeting can be called fateful under the following conditions:
- 1. Earlier, the beloved came in dreams, despite the fact that there were no real meetings with him. In such dreams, all the seen images can be symbolic, hiding the prompts of fate. But they most often dream of 5, 10 and 15 years before the meeting.
- 2. After a long separation, partners meet and strong feelings flare up between them, forcing them to stay together forever.
- 3. A meeting between a man and a woman took place in the event of unforeseen events, for example, if you are late for transport or when you move.
- 4. If there is a desire to part, partners cannot do this, as circumstances arise that prevent it. It is symbolic and the situation in which the partners, by contrast, can not tie the knot and legitimize the relationship of unforeseen circumstances.
Even if fate is constantly confronted with a certain person, it is not a prediction that the relationship with him will be happy and will last his whole life. Perhaps fate sends a satellite for a short period so that a man and a woman can correct their mistakes.
To check whether the relationship will develop with the selected partner, you can resort to simple fortune telling, which allows you to make a prediction about the future of the couple.
One of these rituals is communication with the Upper Force. To hold it you need:
- 1. Take a church candle.
- 2. Being in complete solitude and silence, read the plot: “Angels of love, light and goodness, reveal to me (name) the truth, will I be together with (name of partner)”.
- 3. Breathe in the scent of the candle and go outside and ask the first counter-question, which involves the answer «yes» or «no», for example, «Do you have a watch?» «.
- 4. If the answer is yes, then the couple has every chance of developing relations, if it is negative, the union will soon disintegrate.
There is a fortunetelling with the help of a pendulum. To hold it you need:
- 1. Take a container with running water and make a pendulum, putting a ring or a needle on a string.
- 2. Take the pendulum in your right hand and wait for it to stop moving, then ask a question to the forces of Light and Good, mentally presenting the beloved.
If he moves left and right — the answer is negative, back and forth — positive.
To do this, hold a simple ritual during the full moon. In the morning, waking up, you need to lie down for about 15 minutes with your eyes closed and imagine that somewhere now there is a guy who is destined. It is necessary to dream a little about what he can do, what hobbies he has and how he spends today.
You can imagine your future with it, while images and sensations should arise easily.
After a full awakening, you need to go for a walk and perform a series of actions:
- 1. Walk to the nearest intersection, then turn left and walk 2 blocks. We need to look around and remember the first thing that catches the eye.
- 2. Turn right and walk another 2 blocks. In the specified location, you must again try to capture a significant object.
- 3. Turn left and walk another 2 blocks. Stopping at the specified location, you need to find a significant object.
- 4. Turn right and walk another 3 blocks. Now you need to look around and go to the first man who will be there, and ask his name.
Thanks to the received answer, you can find out how the future husband will be called.
Sometimes a woman strongly wants the man with whom she began a relationship to be her destiny, and therefore does not specifically notice all of his shortcomings. She convinces herself that this person was sent to her by the Universe, and finds various confirmations with the help of esotericism, astrology and numerology.
In this situation, you should pay attention to the signs that indicate that the new satellite is not a messenger from Providence:
- 1. All that interests a person in the chosen one is his social position or appearance.
- 2. The parterre is not interested in what his life partner lives and is interested in.
- 3. A person does not have the willingness to take on the problems of his beloved and help him with something.
- 4. The partner expects that the second half will give him everything he wants, and in exchange he cannot offer anything.
- 5. A man is weary of the beloved’s tales. He pretends to listen to him, and he thinks about something else, and at the first opportunity he takes the conversation to more pleasant topics.
It is necessary to pay attention to the behavior of the chosen one. Distinctive features of partners who cannot make their soul mate happy are the following:
- 1. A person refuses any responsibility. He does not undertake any obligations, but if he promises something, he either does not fulfill it, or does it after repeated reminders.
- 2. He does not let the chosen one into his life. They do not have common friends, and their relatives do not know each other.
- 3. The partner closes and refuses to answer questions about what he does. He ignores the interest in him and does not want to build a stable trust relationship.
- 4. The woman herself has to make appointments and arrange dates. A man often refuses and refers to his employment.
- 5. A person does not count with the time of his partner and can promise to come, but not do it, and then disappear for several days or weeks. You should not think that this is exactly how fate checks relationships for strength — it is just that a person does not need such relationships.
- 6. The man has a wife or girl, with whom he promises to part. In fact, it is just comfortable for him to have several partners, occasionally promising each one love and stability.
To choose the right partner, you need to think objectively and give up self-deception. It is better to wait a bit and do self-development than to make a mistake and regret it all your life.
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