People often find a common language at the first conversation, sympathy arises between them at once. But it happens that the interlocutor is unpleasant for unknown reasons.
This suggests that partners lack compatibility. Identify points of contact and differences in the characters and attitudes in life in various ways. Various techniques for determining compatibility make it possible to find out the strengths and weaknesses of a person and to understand in what situation you can rely on him and when you should not trust.
Compatibility plays a role not only for family life, but also for business and collaboration.
Compatibility of people in love and friendship can be most accurately determined using the synastric horoscope. This astrological calculation system uses a natal chart, that is, a personal horoscope for each of the partners.
It is made taking into account the time and place of birth of a person.
The natal chart is a solar system in the form of a circle, divided into 12 equal sectors (30 degrees), each of which is assigned to one of the signs of the zodiac. The sequence of characters is always constant and does not change. The planets of the solar system are continuously moving in a circle.
The farther from the Sun is the celestial body, the slower its movement in the zodiac circle. Being in the sector of a certain sign of the zodiac, the planets have an impact on the fate of people in one degree or another.
The position of the Sun, the Moon and each of the planets at the time of birth exert their influence on a person and his compatibility with other people:
|Heavenly body||Impact factors|
|The sun||Mutual understanding of people|
|Moon||Mental organization and the emotional side of life|
|Mercury||Sociability, interaction at the verabal level|
|Venus||Presence or lack of sympathy|
|Mars||Energy, conflict at the physical level|
|Jupiter||Life satisfaction, outrage without further action|
|Saturn||Power and suppression of the individuality of a partner, alienation|
|Uranus||Eccentricity and surprise|
Synastry (compatibility) determines compatibility not only in love and marriage, but also in business, which is built on the principles of partnership.
There are a lot of services on the Internet, which in real time will issue a detailed calculation based on the entered data for both partners. By combining the natal charts of two people, an experienced astrologer can assess the potential of their interaction.
The signs of the zodiac can determine what are the prospects for future or existing relationships. At the heart of the compatibility horoscope is the way of thinking of representatives of different signs of the zodiac, their priorities and characteristic ways of achieving goals:
|Zodiac sign||Basic qualities||Good compatibility||Bad compatibility|
|Aries||Leadership, assertiveness, courage, enterprise, impatience, irascibility, egoism|
|Taurus||Patience, stubbornness, sluggishness, the desire for pleasure and aesthetics, materialism|
|Twins||Curiosity, intellectuality, sociability, cunning, intolerance to monotony, levity|
|Crayfish||Sensitivity and emotionality, caring, vivid imagination and frequent mood changes, secrecy, laziness|
|a lion||Authority, ambition, romanticism, self-confidence, arrogance, generosity and nobility, creative abilities, vanity, cruelty|
|Virgo||Pedantry, criticality, practicality, cleanliness, diligence, loyalty|
|Libra||Sensuality, diplomacy, indecision, friendliness, delicacy and refinement, sociability, inconsistency|
|Scorpio||Samoedstvo, the ability to think big, rancor and vindictiveness, developed intuition, energy and passion|
|Sagittarius||Ambitiousness, the desire to travel, vitality, morality, professionalism, friendliness, sincerity, optimism|
|Capricorn||Punctuality, careerism, diligence, organizational potential, purposefulness, stubbornness, imperiousness|
|Aquarius||Originality, genius and ideological, sociability, friendliness, love of freedom, shyness, dependence on opinion|
|Fish||Emotionality, sensitivity, intuitiveness, rich imagination, creativity, inconsistency, mystery, laziness, impracticality|
Pythagoras developed a method by which one can accurately determine the personality traits of a person and his potential by date of birth.
The basis of this method is numerology. Birth date figures are stacked in a specific way. Then they are distributed in the squares of the so-called psychomatrix.
To calculate the compatibility of two people, squares each are pre-made, and then count the number of digits horizontally, vertically, and diagonally. The results obtained are compared with each other.
Each cell of the psychomatrix displays a character or sphere of a person’s life for a particular trait:
Kindness, sense of duty
Psychomatrix is calculated in several stages. For example, if the date of birth is May 22, 1995:
- 1. Add the digits of the date of birth 05.22.1995: 2 + 2 + 0 + 5 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 5 = 33 (the first working number).
- 2. Sum the digits of the first working number: 3 + 3 = 6 (the second working number).
- 3. The first digit of the birthday is doubled (if it is zero, then the second digit is taken): 2×2 = 4.
- 4. The resulting value is subtracted from the first working number: 33-4 = 29 (the third working number).
- 5. Figures of the third working number are added: 2 + 9 = 11 (the fourth working number).
All the resulting figures are added to the corresponding cell values of the Pythagorean square (with the exception of zeros): 22, 5, 1995, 33, 6, 29, 11. The more numbers in one group, the more developed the corresponding quality.
The number of digits vertically, diagonally and horizontally indicates a person’s character. The more of them, the more developed this feature.
If there are more than five digits in a row, then the quality will be fanatic to the detriment of other character traits.
To find out the compatibility of partners, it is necessary to make up psychomatrices for both. The above presented calculation was made for a guy. For a girl born on November 6, 1991, the Pythagorean square will look like this (6, 11, 1991, 28, 1, 16, 7):
Based on the results obtained, a comparative table must be made, counting the number of digits in the psychomatrices of both partners horizontally, vertically and diagonally. For example, the figures 1,4,7 (the first horizontal line) correspond to such quality as purposefulness. The guy in this line has only 3 digits, and the girl has 7:
|is he||She is||Quality||Compatibility|
|3||7||Purposefulness||In this pair, the girl has a much stronger sense of purpose and she will take the lead in the family|
|five||2||The quality of the family man||Family values are much more important for a young man than for his partner, which characterizes him as a very good family man. The girl will be very mediocre hostess|
|6||four||Stability||Both partners strive for stability, which can serve as a guarantee of completely harmonious relations. With a strong difference in the values of this quality, one will strive for peace and quiet, while the other will be too active.|
|eight||7||Self-esteem||Self-esteem of this pair is almost on the same level, they will be comfortable together|
|3||2||Material independence||Both partners do not care much about the material side of life, so they do not have disagreements|
|3||four||Talent||The girl is a little more talented. The guy should be understanding with her hobbies, support and encourage them|
|four||one||Temperament||The difference in temperament is significant. To avoid adultery in the future, the girl should pay more attention to the sexual side of the relationship.|
|eight||eight||Spirituality||Spirituality on the same level, which means deep respect for each other and similar moral values|
Another way to find out the compatibility of two people is a numerological calculation by last name, first name and patronymic. With it, you can get information about the character, temperament, abilities and destiny of a person.
It is made on the basis of the table below, where each letter corresponds to a certain number.
All numbers that correspond to the letters in the last name, first name and patronymic are summarized. For example, for Sidorov Peter Ivanovich it will look as follows:
In the same way it is necessary to calculate the number corresponding to the name of the intended partner. For example, the calculation for Petrova Anna Andreevny:
Thus, the personal number of Peter — 7, Anna — 2.
The figures obtained allow us to find out the characteristic qualities of these people. Interpretations are given in the table:
|one||A born leader with a solid position in life and inflexible character. Achieves any goals and great career success|
|2||An analyst and theorist, not very inclined to independent action. Soft, intelligent, artistic and flexible nature, easily adaptable to any circumstances.|
|3||Creative and versatile talented person. The ability to express yourself will allow to achieve great heights in art. To achieve the result, you need to focus on one thing.|
|four||Practicality and rationality will allow you to become a successful entrepreneur, but the tendency to pessimism can become an obstacle to the goal. You need to learn to see the positive aspects of life and increase self-esteem|
|five||An impulsive person whose senses eclipse the mind. Attempts to embrace the immense lead to a loss of interest and frequent changes of activity. To achieve success, you need to try to complete every job you start.|
|6||Honest, responsible and very straightforward person. These qualities allow to achieve impressive results in any case. But there are cases when excessive straightness only harms|
|7||Able to look at the world from an unusual angle, analyze information and build causal relationships. May become an investigator or an outstanding scientist|
|eight||Iron patience and tremendous power, which makes it possible to realize even the most difficult and far-away dreams to be fulfilled. But do not forget about helping other people.|
|9||A harmonious and solid personality, seeing the goal of life in caring and helping the weaker, the ideal social worker or teacher|
In order to use this calculation to find out the compatibility of two people, it is necessary to add their own numbers to obtain a single-digit number. On the example of Peter and Anna it turns out 7 + 2 = 9.
Thus, their number of compatibility is 9. From the following table you can find out the decoding of the value of this digit.
|one||Such a pair is full of strength and energy, equally thinking and seeking power. Under their authority any business will flourish. Both are true to their moral principles and do not violate them on the road to success.|
|2||Relations, full of trust and understanding. These people are hospitable, always ready to help those in need, rarely quarrel. Reach their goals only by collaborating on an equal footing.|
|3||Attraction to each other is huge and long lasting. This couple has a great creative potential, a non-standard outlook on life and easily find like-minded people.|
|four||These people are united by loyalty to traditions, dedication and hard work. Perfect compatibility in business relationships, and in love and friendship will not be enough emotions and passion|
|five||The relationship of any pair of five will fill the spirit of adventure and the desire for something new. There is no stability in them and there will never be monotony. If desired, partners will become successful entrepreneurs and make many useful contacts.|
|6||This couple is firmly connected spiritually, they solve any problems together, take care of loved ones and sincerely support each other. They take life as it is and rejoice in every day.|
|7||Interest in the occult sciences, magic and philosophy unites these people in the way of understanding the meaning of the universe. They are true to each other and are very different from most. Achieved great results, working at a quiet measured pace, creatively relate to any business.|
|eight||Both are aimed at material well-being, talented and able to achieve their own. They are honest, purposeful and do not tolerate cunning and duplicity|
|9||This union is attractive for its versatility. Partners are easy to go through life, have common thoughts, feelings and aspirations. They are brought together by a passion for traveling and learning new things.|
Sergey V. Shestopalov is one of the leading Russian astrologers. He conducted many studies in which 1,800 married couples took part, and based on the data he developed, he developed a system to determine the compatibility of partners.
Common interpretations of compatibility according to the signs of the zodiac, according to Shestopalov, often do not correspond to reality. Unions of representatives of one element are sometimes unstable and often end in divorce. People belonging to the same sign (for example, Leo, Taurus and Aquarius) are poorly compatible with each other.
But Aries, Cancer, Capricorn and Pisces are perfectly combined with their own kind. Those signs that are next to each other in the zodiacal circle often have not very good compatibility.
The table below shows the compatibility of the signs of the zodiac:
|Sign||Good combination||Bad combination|
|Aries||The man||Libra, Leo, Aries||Scorpio, Cancer, Taurus, Pisces, Gemini, Sagittarius|
|Woman||Aries, Aquarius||Scales, Fish, Cancer, Scorpio, Sagittarius|
|Taurus||The man||Capricorn, Fish, Libra||Cancer, Taurus|
|Woman||Aquarius, Capricorn, Cancer||Taurus, Gemini, Aries|
|Twins||The man||Capricorn, Aquarius, Scorpio||Cancer, Taurus, Sagittarius|
|Woman||Aquarius, Cancer||Scorpio, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aries|
|Crayfish||The man||Taurus, Cancer, Gemini||Libra, Aries|
|Woman||Crayfish||Taurus, Gemini, Aries, Sagittarius|
|a lion||The man||Sagittarius||a lion|
|Woman||Libra, Aries||Leo, Virgo, Aquarius|
|Virgo||The man||Fish||Aquarius, Leo, Scorpio|
|Woman||Capricorn, Pisces||Sagittarius, Libra, Aquarius, Scorpio|
|Libra||The man||a lion||Gemini, Virgo, Aries|
|Woman||Aries, Fish, Taurus||Crayfish|
|Scorpio||The man||Fish, Sagittarius||Gemini, Aquarius, Aries, Virgo|
|Woman||Fish, Gemini||Aries, Capricorn, Virgo.|
|Sagittarius||The man.||There are no stable alliances!||Gemini, Virgo, Aries, Cancer|
|Woman||Capricorn, Leo, Scorpio||Aquarius, Gemini, Aries|
|Capricorn||The man||Taurus, Sagittarius, Virgo, Capricorn||Gemini, Scorpio, Pisces|
|Woman||Gemini, Taurus, Capricorn||Libra|
|Aquarius||The man||Taurus, Gemini, Aries||Sagittarius, Virgo, Aquarius, Leo|
|Woman||Twins||Virgo, Scorpio, Aquarius, Pisces|
|Fish||The man||Libra, Scorpio, Virgo, Pisces||Aries, Aquarius|
|Woman||Scorpio, Taurus, Pisces, Virgo||Aries, Capricorn|
A bad combination of signs does not mean that union is impossible. For example, in pairs where the man is Scorpio, and the woman is Gemini only 42% of divorces, and the remaining 58% have well-to-do families.
There is another simple way to check how a man and a woman fit together. Below is a love compatibility chart.
Decoding of love compatibility table values:
|2||Short fleeting relationship|
|3||Good strong couple|
|four||People made for each other|
|five||Fire and passion that bring happiness|
|6||Everything can be good if you make an effort.|
|7||Chances are disappointing|
|eight||This relationship is impossible to predict.|
|9||The greatest joy will bring friendship|
|ten||When two are so stubborn, it’s hard to predict who will prevail|
|eleven||Relationships full of extraordinary events|
|12||Happy and cheerful meetings|
|14||Different temperaments will not achieve harmony|
|15||Great couple, attentive to each other|
|sixteen||Everyone wants to be the center of attention, someone must give way|
|17||Everything will be fine if you get rid of stubbornness|
|18||Common interests, strong alliance|
|20||There is no understanding|
|21||Everything is wonderful in love and friendship|
|22||Chance to lose interest|
|23||Long relationship full of heat|
|25||Solid omissions and resentment|
|27||Together it will be uncomfortable|
|28||A lot of joy and caress|
|thirty||Need to learn to listen to a partner|
|32||Sheer joy and fun adventure|
|33||There will be no happiness, too different|
|35||There may be a great relationship|
|36||Tenderness and warm feelings|
|39||Nothing common boredom|
|40||Little good, although both are trying|
|41||Misunderstanding and resentment|
|43||Very beautiful couple|
|44||There will be scandals|
|45||It is a good alliance|
|46||There is a lot of controversy, but in general everything is fine|
|47||Happiness and care for each other|
|48||Romance and difficulties|
|49||Nervousness and uncertainty in everything|
|51||Excellent understanding, but boredom is possible|
|52||Monotony ruins a relationship|
|53||There will be many difficulties on the road to great happiness.|
|54||Better not to try|
|55||All you can dream of|
|56||Lack of understanding|
|57||Stormy passion, which is impossible to resist|
|58||Very good and warm relationship|
|59||Fireworks of feelings and jealousy|
|60||You can achieve excellent relationships if you work on them|
|61||Only friendship, love does not work|
|62||Everything will be fine if you expand the circle of communication|
|63||You can rely on a loved one|
|64||Difficult relationships, but happiness is quite possible.|
|65||The perfect combination of love and friendship|
|68||If Pisces can obey, both will be happy.|
|70||Everything will be wonderful if Capricorn stops annoying|
|71||Need to look for common interests|
|72||Very similar, but often in conflict.|
|73||Happiness is very unlikely|
|74||Similar in spirit and interests|
|75||Happiness will come if both learn to yield|
|76||Nothing but sympathy|
|77||Shared dreams and fantasies|
Any method of verifying compatibility, be it fortune-telling, the synastric horoscope, Pythagorean square, or numerological calculation by date of birth, name and surname, cannot give one hundred percent result. It happens that people are ideally compatible in all respects, but their life still does not add up.
Or on the contrary, there is practically no coincidence in the calculations, but the couple cope with any difficulties.
Everything depends on the people themselves, on their interest and desire to work on relationships. And all the results of the compatibility analysis should be taken as clues as to which direction to go in order to achieve happiness.
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